LESSONS FROM 2016
I got my first big surprise when I was 7 years, this was the time I got to fast-forward nature. I have read about fiction where people go into the future by some time machine and come back to the past to try and make what the future would be better by making some changes.
Well, mine wasn't that fictitious, well at 7, I was allowed to skip classes because my teacher perceived I was too sharp after the class entry interview. In 2016, I wished I could go into the future and see what comes and CHANGE ALOT. Folks, wishes were horses, too high up for me to ride. Good thing is you get to prepare for tomorrow by riding on the horse you can get now to make tomorrow a smooth ride. And so, 2016, taught me these few lessons;
1. Take time to get to know everyone, DON'T EVER ASSUME HUMAN BEHAVIOR. I joined the Kenya School of Law, and I got to socialize with lawyers from all walks of Law schools. We worked together for a common goal, at times we worked against each other. We battled out, I saw how court room, law practice would be like, and understood why some lawyers have the best practice while others have an evil reputation.
Professional ethics class taught me to respect my colleagues but also each individual I meet. I learnt integrity and I swore that I will never steal from my clients. I met human behavior in its natural self, the personalities, having mastered their trends, patients helped me tolerate everyone, and I discovered that No one can think the same as another, study people, they have alot to bring to the table.
2. NO MAN IS AN ISLAND.
Folks, this is abit related to number 1. In 2016, I would commute to school every morning from home till around June, Home is far from school, I could get tired, felt broken and weary. Secondly, I had a lot of research assignments to handle plus group meetings later in the year. You don't want to be me, for the most part, I would tackle a task by myself but soon, I realized why not delegate or ask for help. So, for group work, I delegated and put someone in charge of my house hunting so that I do not worry while in class lectures. I also put people into account, try to make them meet deadlines.
I one time forgot my wallet in the house, and luckily talked to the conductor who was kind to allow me to take the trip for free, I actually wanted to die in the situation alone, but how? I had no quick mind at that time, school alone was driving me at 150 km/s, I couldn't keep up alone. I laugh at myself at times, In addition, when I got a house, I met friends and we decided to do things together, I was abit sceptic to this, but soon, this had a positive outcome. We cut down on house costs by budgeting for lump sum shopping and delegating duties. I tell you, you can't be an island. You will be miserable.
3. TOUCH BASE WITH PEOPLE, I MEAN GOOD BASE
This, I will carry it with me in 2017. I brief people on what needs to be done, or recap on what was done. People can forget because we all have alot to do on a daily basis, if you remember something don't hold it against he who has forgotten. Do a brief for them when you meet and have their thoughts. BUT this doesn't mean you become the lazy douche who never keeps anything in mind but still, in law school we use the term, DUE DILIGENCE. Do your background check, when you touch base with someone, you know your info. That is professional and you become trustworthy.
4. ROLE YOUR TONGUE WELL AND BE WELL READ. PLEASE AT LEAST KNOW WHAT GOES ON IN THE WORLD.
One thing that makes me get away with anything is the way I speak. My friends always tell me "You are the one going to speak" when we meet new people. To me, first impression matters alot. Before you even open your mouth, body language will tell me whether you are "dead on arrival" to me. Once you speak I already know how a rapport will be created. Speaking humbly and gently, with authority and good poise made me to have my way with my landlady even though we disagreed, helped me to meet amazing friends and lastly it got me a " Yes" in a job interview. A panel of eight made my heart skip when they said "Your confidence in the way you speak is commendable"
5. AGREE TO HAVE THIS ONE BEST FRIEND
Yes, if you want to move, like be the best, you have to let God be your best friend. We fought alot with God last year, I kept on getting the "Wait" answer. but Faith took me places. I can't believe where I have come from with Faith, you should do the same, Many a times I shouted while praying, thinking that I am shouting at God, because I didn't want some things He was choosing for me. Soon, I told Him, you know what " HAVE YOUR WAY" I will trust you.
6. TAKE IT SLOW AT TIMES, I mean rest if you will.
This was my lesson for 2015 & 2016, Working with my dissertation and intense studying at law school made me realize resting is important. True story, after my exam I slept for almost full 24 hours because my mind was tired, I embarked on my morning jogs and work outs and water has been my companion. I don't want to die from overworking myself, so shouldn't you.
7. KNOW YOUR TRIGGERS
This is probably the most important of them all, I read "The Wait" By Megan Good and Devon Franklin and a chapter on triggers made me aware of trying to keep up with the Kardashians and Jonesses. I said, how silly of me, I mean, I should move with life at my own pace. Alot of friends took a step in life, some was motivating, but some would make me feel I am not doing the best in my life. So, I discovered what triggers my reactions or feel under pressure so that I know how to handle situations.
8. HAVE THE A-GAME
Don't ever rehearse life. Have the perfect plan as if your life depends on it. I believe plan Bs are a last resort, at times they are not for winners. Take that last card and make your best bet. Trust, trust and trust. You will win
Having that in mind, Happy new year folks
Well, mine wasn't that fictitious, well at 7, I was allowed to skip classes because my teacher perceived I was too sharp after the class entry interview. In 2016, I wished I could go into the future and see what comes and CHANGE ALOT. Folks, wishes were horses, too high up for me to ride. Good thing is you get to prepare for tomorrow by riding on the horse you can get now to make tomorrow a smooth ride. And so, 2016, taught me these few lessons;
1. Take time to get to know everyone, DON'T EVER ASSUME HUMAN BEHAVIOR. I joined the Kenya School of Law, and I got to socialize with lawyers from all walks of Law schools. We worked together for a common goal, at times we worked against each other. We battled out, I saw how court room, law practice would be like, and understood why some lawyers have the best practice while others have an evil reputation.
Professional ethics class taught me to respect my colleagues but also each individual I meet. I learnt integrity and I swore that I will never steal from my clients. I met human behavior in its natural self, the personalities, having mastered their trends, patients helped me tolerate everyone, and I discovered that No one can think the same as another, study people, they have alot to bring to the table.
2. NO MAN IS AN ISLAND.
Folks, this is abit related to number 1. In 2016, I would commute to school every morning from home till around June, Home is far from school, I could get tired, felt broken and weary. Secondly, I had a lot of research assignments to handle plus group meetings later in the year. You don't want to be me, for the most part, I would tackle a task by myself but soon, I realized why not delegate or ask for help. So, for group work, I delegated and put someone in charge of my house hunting so that I do not worry while in class lectures. I also put people into account, try to make them meet deadlines.
I one time forgot my wallet in the house, and luckily talked to the conductor who was kind to allow me to take the trip for free, I actually wanted to die in the situation alone, but how? I had no quick mind at that time, school alone was driving me at 150 km/s, I couldn't keep up alone. I laugh at myself at times, In addition, when I got a house, I met friends and we decided to do things together, I was abit sceptic to this, but soon, this had a positive outcome. We cut down on house costs by budgeting for lump sum shopping and delegating duties. I tell you, you can't be an island. You will be miserable.
3. TOUCH BASE WITH PEOPLE, I MEAN GOOD BASE
This, I will carry it with me in 2017. I brief people on what needs to be done, or recap on what was done. People can forget because we all have alot to do on a daily basis, if you remember something don't hold it against he who has forgotten. Do a brief for them when you meet and have their thoughts. BUT this doesn't mean you become the lazy douche who never keeps anything in mind but still, in law school we use the term, DUE DILIGENCE. Do your background check, when you touch base with someone, you know your info. That is professional and you become trustworthy.
4. ROLE YOUR TONGUE WELL AND BE WELL READ. PLEASE AT LEAST KNOW WHAT GOES ON IN THE WORLD.
One thing that makes me get away with anything is the way I speak. My friends always tell me "You are the one going to speak" when we meet new people. To me, first impression matters alot. Before you even open your mouth, body language will tell me whether you are "dead on arrival" to me. Once you speak I already know how a rapport will be created. Speaking humbly and gently, with authority and good poise made me to have my way with my landlady even though we disagreed, helped me to meet amazing friends and lastly it got me a " Yes" in a job interview. A panel of eight made my heart skip when they said "Your confidence in the way you speak is commendable"
5. AGREE TO HAVE THIS ONE BEST FRIEND
Yes, if you want to move, like be the best, you have to let God be your best friend. We fought alot with God last year, I kept on getting the "Wait" answer. but Faith took me places. I can't believe where I have come from with Faith, you should do the same, Many a times I shouted while praying, thinking that I am shouting at God, because I didn't want some things He was choosing for me. Soon, I told Him, you know what " HAVE YOUR WAY" I will trust you.
6. TAKE IT SLOW AT TIMES, I mean rest if you will.
This was my lesson for 2015 & 2016, Working with my dissertation and intense studying at law school made me realize resting is important. True story, after my exam I slept for almost full 24 hours because my mind was tired, I embarked on my morning jogs and work outs and water has been my companion. I don't want to die from overworking myself, so shouldn't you.
7. KNOW YOUR TRIGGERS
This is probably the most important of them all, I read "The Wait" By Megan Good and Devon Franklin and a chapter on triggers made me aware of trying to keep up with the Kardashians and Jonesses. I said, how silly of me, I mean, I should move with life at my own pace. Alot of friends took a step in life, some was motivating, but some would make me feel I am not doing the best in my life. So, I discovered what triggers my reactions or feel under pressure so that I know how to handle situations.
8. HAVE THE A-GAME
Don't ever rehearse life. Have the perfect plan as if your life depends on it. I believe plan Bs are a last resort, at times they are not for winners. Take that last card and make your best bet. Trust, trust and trust. You will win
Having that in mind, Happy new year folks
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